Saturday, December 18, 2010

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My speech at Nirmala Convent school, mysore as Chief Guest


Hello everyone and my dear young friends

It is indeed an honour to be here today , in this temple of learning. Schools are nothing but a place where the future of India is nurtured. Parents at home and teachers at school are most important influences in ones life. Hence school is a very important part of each one of us.

It is indeed a privilege to be part of this institution as I have been a part of this school as a child. Our father who art in heaven , hallowed be thy name..is the first prayer i ever learned as a child.

For parents I have to submit that child fo course is the focal point of our life. But it is said that if there is anything that you can give to your children is TIME, No amont of physical compensations can replace your position or cannot give that happiness , that is merely by your presence by their side. Your children need your presence more than your presents.

When you have brought up kids, there are memories you store directly in your tear ducts.

It is also said that Always kiss your children goodnight - even if they're already asleep.
Of course nurturing children is not easy. It is said that and I quote “Before I got married I had six theories about bringing up children; now I have six children, and no theories. “

It is also said that :If you have never been hated by your child you have never been a parent. So nurturing requires knowledge of the childs behaviour and activities before he or she can be disciplined. Discliplining is a way of life to nurture and mould talent in a favorabe way. Of course it has to be done in a very friendly way. Because simply having children does not make mothers.

For it is said that Although there are many trial marriages... there is no such thing as a trial child.

Since as a parent ....You will always be your child's favorite toy.

And There is only one pretty child in the world, and every mother has it.

The nurturing has to be done in time or else it is said that Small children disturb your sleep, big children your life

For the students I have to say that you are the future of this country. Please be focussed, have an aim in life and achieve it. DO not be like a free floating balloon that has no destination. Preparing for life and for success starts very young. DO not postpone or think that let me be 18 then I wil decide what to do..till then it is films, parties, picnics. If this is the approach then I am afraid to say you may miss the bus for ever.

For it is said that “Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power.”

For Losers make promises they often break. Winners make commitments they always keep.So choose where you decide to be in. Be determined to succeed and to succeed you must be determined to work hard. Only work follows success and it is always the same sequence. Be prepared to take the dive. Or else wile away your time and miss the bus for ever. End up as junk or as a person who could never realise her potential. And remember opportunity never knocks again . it is once. The only discipline that lasts is self-discipline.It can never be imposed. That will be counterproductive.

For teens it is said that for a Teenager: 'No' is a complete sentence
The amount of enthusiasm youngsters like you have is simply unmatched. Everyone has his or her fond memories of teenage, which are close to their heart.
For students should note that There are three sides to any argument: your side, my side and the right side.
Always be on the right side or else you are fooling yourself. And fooling yourself is not going to last long. One day all will collapse like a pack of cards.

Remember Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve
And Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude."

Of course development has to be all round. Participation in curricular activities in a way adds to your personality. Apart from mastering academics, opportunities for debating , dance, music should not be left unexplored as these are a method of self expression. Of course these also lead to good communication skills. And good communication skills are going to make you come out in flying colors in interviews and in your workplace. You can be on top of the world and effective manager. The foundation stone of this seed is laid in schools.
It is said that SILENCE Is d best Answer for all questions...
SMILE Is d best Reaction in all situations
Unfortunately BOTH Never Help In any EXAM, VIVA, REVIEW & INTERVIEW. So choice is yours.

It is said “ You are only young once, and if you work it right, once is enough.
It is said your success lies in your dreams. SO go to sleep….DONT ..wake up , live up and work hard ..to realize your dreams, every second. Become obsessed with achieving it and be excited to find the right path quickly.

It is so important to be focused in life. If this is wasted then it is like you have been derailed from the journey of success and achievement oriendted pathways in life.

It is said if you work hard the first 25 years of your life..you can enjoy for the rest of your life. Doing mere signatures. Or else you write big notes. So this time is so so precious for you.

Academics..excellence..achievement..cocurricular activities..that should be your motto. If this time is wasted . it is going to derail you forever..for these things lead to regret later… a cool sigh… a lost dream …a disappointment.. I do not think anyone deserves it.

Some people are so confused . It is said “I wish I was given a map of life when I was born, Just wanna be sure where I am headed now...” This is a lack of focus.
It is said that Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worse kind of suffering.

I quote “I was born to be a pessimist. My blood type is B Negative”
Don’t be !!!
It is very important to be positive and be among positive people. Nothing is impossible if you are motivated to achieve. It is a threshold that you have to cross. Once you do…I can say even you do not know your limits. Sometimes you get surprised about your extents.

It is said that “The Life is an invisible curve,Go and face everything.”

Never argue with a person who discourages your dreams. Arguing with a such a person is like wrestling in the mud with a pig. Sooner or later you figure out that nothing happens to you but the pig seems to enjoy it.

Never tell your problems to anyone...20% don't care and the other 80% are glad you have them.
A race horse that consistently..runs just 1 second faster..than others is worth millions of dollars more......So don’t compromise on 2nd position in life.
The moment you flip a coin, you know what your decision is. not because of the side it landed, but because in the few seconds the coin was in the air, you knew what you wanted.

You miss 100 percent of the shots you never take.
Habits begin as cobwebs, then become cables.
Light travels faster than sound. That's why some people appear bright until you hear them speak.
My friend has a fine watch dog. At any suspicious noise he wakes the dog and the dog begins to bark.
They call our language the mother tongue because the father seldom gets to speak.
Don’t Guess A Person’s Character On His Present Situation
Coz Time Has The Power To Change An Ordinary Coal Into A Precious Diamond….

Do not argue with an idiot. He will drag you down to his level and beat you with experience.
God saw your parents hungry, he created meal
God saw they are thirsty, he created coke

He saw them walking, he created car
He saw them without problems, he created you.

Go and grab the world..it is waiting for you with baited breath.

Wednesday, December 1, 2010

My speech on the occasion of inauguration as CHIEF GUEST at intercollege festival at Kautilya Vidyalaya,Mysore


Hi friends
I consider it fortunate to interact with you today on the occasion of Kautilya Intercollege youth festival. On this momentous occasion I hail the power of youth!! The fountain of boundless energy unleashed!!!

It is said “ You are only young once, and if you work it right, once is enough.

“ one thing that is…. Incredibly, inordinately, devastatingly, immortally, calamitously, hearteningly, adorably beautiful….is youth.

You are the future of this country. You have aspirations. Hopes , dreams..to be realized to go on to the top of the world.

It is said your success lies in your dreams. SO go to sleep….DONT ..wake up , live up and work hard ..to realize your dreams, every second. Become obsessed with achieving it and be excited to find the right path quickly.

It is so important to be focused in life. If this is wasted then it is like you have been derailed from the journey of success and achievement oriendted pathways in life.

It is said if you work hard the first 25 years of your life..you can enjoy for the rest of your life. Doing mere signatures. Or else you write big notes.(clerk) So this time is so so precious for you.

Academics..excellence..achievement..cocurricular activities..that should be your motto. If this time is wasted . it is going to derail you forever..for these things lead to regret later… a cool sigh… a lost dream …a disappointment.. I do not think anyone deserves it.

I think all of us are equally intelligent..it may be specific to an area..but remember whatever you do excel..be the best. Be an achiever in life. Once you achieve this platform the world looks so beautiful ….. that you can be a role model for others.
Some people are so confused . It is said “I wish I was given a map of life when I was born, Just wanna be sure where I am headed now...” This is a lack of focus.
Life in the end is a sumtotal of missed and utilized opportunities.So if you miss the bus at the opportune time..you have missed gravely in life….your level later on..or at what stature you would be.
It is said that Waiting is painful. Forgetting is painful. But not knowing which to do is the worse kind of suffering.
Don’t be like this. Have a rough plan for your life and career.
And my emphasis is on you for excelling now..being totally focused..obsessed…avoiding all distractions totally…remember any distraction are your gravest enemies..if you lose your focus and keep on losing it you are doomed for life.

Maybe you are very bright but the brightness fades away quickly ,gets clouded, and dissipates in the wrong company. So a very bright talent goes down the drain. Irreparable damage. Lost for ever. For the right time for it to nurture is so important.

I quote “I was born to be a pessimist. My blood type is B Negative”
Don’t be !!!
It is very important to be positive and be among positive people. Nothing is impossible if you are motivated to achieve. It is a threshold that you have to cross. Once you do…I can say even you do not know your limits. Sometimes you get surprised about your extents.

It is said that “The Life is an invisible curve,Go and face everything.”

You can choose your vocation or become a bureaucrat like me.It is said that “The only thing which saves us from the bureaucracy is its inefficiency.”

Become a fanatic for achieveing. It is said that “A fanatic is one who won't change his mind and won't change the subject.” Such should be your level of commitment for achieving and efforts to excel.

There are two kinds of people, those who do the work and those who take the credit. Try to be in the first group; there is less competition there.work work and work and achieve. Go on top.

Never argue with a person who discourages your dreams.Arguing with a such a person is like wrestling in the mud with a pig. Sooner or later you figure out that nothing happens to you but the pig seems to enjoy it.


It is hard to convince a high-school student that he will encounter a lot of problems more difficult than those of algebra and geometry. So life begins after degree..after your graduation ..real struggle begins..the 2-3 years after you graduate..for interviews.competetions all are going to decide your fate…so the effort that you put in now is going to decide your stature.


Isnt it true…Little children, have headache; big children, have heartache. So no distractions.
Orelse parents may learn this..it is said “The best way to keep children at home is to make the home atmosphere pleasant, and let the air out of the tyres.”

Some tortures are physical...And some are mental,..But the one that is both..Is dental.

Never tell your problems to anyone...20% don't care and the other 80% are glad you have them.
Treat your password like your toothbrush. Don't let anybody else use it, and get a new one every six months.
A race horse that consistently..runs just 1 second faster..than others is worth millions of dollars more......
Don’t compromise on 2nd position in life.
The moment you flip a coin, you know what your
decision is. not because of the side it landed, but because in the few
seconds the coin was in the air, you knew what you wanted.


Go and grab the world..it is waiting for you with baited breath.